Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Retraction

So I am a nervous talker/typer.

You have no idea how much I edit my posts. They would go on for DAYS if I didn't sit there for a while editing my thoughts.

Man I wish I could do that in real life. Edit my words after the have already exited my mouth.

Oh well.

Any way.

I did this last week.

I made that post about the Riley, the soda spill and Dale.

I owe him an apology.

A BIG ONE

I wrote that post not to convey anger but just to share a funny anecdote from my life. Something I thought was blog worthy and funny.

I am NOT a husband basher. NEVER. Never will I speak ill of my husband. Never will I outwardly express feelings of anger or frustration about my husband to any one but him. He deserves to hear how I feel and no one else. I never have and never will make my husband seem less than he is. Less loving, less intelligent, less caring or less hardworking.

I have told that story a couple times after the post and Dale always feels bad because I got a little of it wrong.

Therefore I feel bad.

He was not trying to taunt Riley. He was trying to give her a hug before she went to the table. Riley was the one who tried to turn it into a game. Riley is the one who accidentally dropped the cup after HER game got to be a little too much.

I will always stick up for Dale and I feel like I need to do that now. He feels defenseless, like I put him on the table for slaughter. I never meant to.

I felt frustrated after the "incident" haha but when I posted the story I was in a place where it had became funny and I should have conveyed that more.

I am sorry Dale. I didn't mean to make you look bad. I didn't mean for the blog to become a place to vent my frustrations about you.

 I love you

4 comments:

DaleyCrackers said...

Thanks, i love you too (K)

Jen said...

Aww :)

I did that the other day to Scott on FB and he was offended. But i was kinda venting in my case. But i shouldn't have done it.

The Gordons said...

Did Dale beat you again? Totally kidding! You're such a loving wife, I always forget my husband isn't as macho as I think he is and that he has feelings too. I'm pretty sure Dale has the best woman in the whole wide world!

Smith said...

You two are so cute. I love how you worded your blog so perfectly. Very well said. I thought the last story was cute. Makes me wonder if the way I word things makes it sound like I bash on Landis. I hope not. Husbands are wonderful.